Women Share Their Encounters With the “Nice Guys” Who Turned Out to Be Creeps

There’s nothing remotely romantic or “cool” about using intimidation as a dating tactic. It’s a gross misuse of power and an unforgivable breach of trust. This kind of behavior is alarming and a serious red flag. It’s not edgy; it’s outright dangerous.

No one should ever feel threatened or fear for their safety on a date, and casual threats of violence are far from normal—they’re a sign to exit the situation immediately and seek help if needed. This is a clear case where the only right move is to ensure you’re safe and far away from someone who sees fear as a part of flirtation. It’s a stark reminder that instincts should never be ignored and personal safety must come first.