Women Share Their Encounters With the “Nice Guys” Who Turned Out to Be Creeps

Surprises can be sweet, but timing is everything. Ignoring explicit requests and opting for an unsolicited late-night floral delivery? That’s less rom-com and more personal boundary com-romp. Good intention marred by poor execution. Even with the purest intentions, an ‘ambush’ after an exhausting day can feel more like a scene from a thriller than a gesture of affection.

Listening seems to be the missing puzzle piece here. Consent isn’t just for grand gestures; it’s for the small ones too. Perhaps a more welcomed approach next time would be a simple message offering support, respecting her space, and waiting for a better moment. Flowers and tea might warm the heart, but respect for one’s wishes warms the soul.